|Posted by Aleesha SuEllen on January 15, 2014 at 5:10 PM|
Hello beauties! I haven't blogged in a couple days and I just came up with a good topic So, as a girl you know the pressure of fitting in with everyone else, to be skinny and have the tightest skinny jeans. I really hate how we have this pressure of being 'cool' it really sucks. Let's ask ourselfs this question real quick. What is cool? Any body got an answer? Is it, having all the best makeup from MAC and sephora? Having the best jewlery? Oh is it having the perfect nail job with Essie nail polsih? No? Then what is it? Any one? No? Well here is what I think 'cool' is. Nothing. There is no 'cool' No matter how hard you try you are never going to be 'cool'. The world makes being 'cool' too 'mainstream' Everything is too 'mainstream' now a days. Have you noticed that? No one wants to be going with the flow anymore, they want to 'Be their own person' Well in doing that they are being like everybody else! I mean, come on. Lets be real for a second. You can be diffrent without being like everybody else. How? Be yourself. But Aleesha, you just said that everybody is trying to be their own person and that makes them be like everybody else. Yeah, I did, but have you noticed that 'being your own person' is being like evreybody else? No one who says that are really their own person. They think they have to be like every body else to be their own person. That's not true! You can honestly be yourself without being like everyone else. If you don't think it's cute to wear skin tight jeans, but you want to fit in, so you wear them anyway, stop. Be who you want to be! If you feel like wearing those old baggy back sweats in public, WEAR THEM! Don't dress a certin way just so people will like you! Be you! You are the one and only you! You were born an original, don't die a copy. If you think you look good in black skinny jeans and a black t-shirt, wear it! Don't listen to those kids who call you gothic or emo! God loves you if you wear all black or the brightest colors in the world! I dress all diffrent ways! Right now I'm wearing brown skinny corduroys a blue shirt and jewlery and makeup. But somedays, I stay in my pajams ALL DAY. I'll be honest, one day I did not feel like getting dress for work so I went in my black baggy mens sweat pants! I felt a little insecure at first, but you know what? I was babystting, who did I have to impress? Little kids don't care if you're wearing sweat pants or skinny jeans! In one of Britt Nicoles songs Headphones, the words are "She gave it her best, she tried to fit in, she tried to be cool but she never could win. Her mom say's she's great, but the kids think she's weird. Honestly she wish she could dissapear. why you try to be like the rest of them, when you know ther's so much more within. Theres only one you, here's what you gotta do Whoa, Anytime you feel alone put on your headphones, love is coming through your headphones" You don't have to be like everyone else! Hun, listen to what I'm saying. Life is not just trying to be like everybody else. It's beeing yourself. I posted something on my Google+ that says " Life isn't just something to stumble through without rhyme or reason. Find your reason and live it like there aint no tomorrow" Find what makes you, you! Be who you are ment to be! Don't worry about what other people think about you. I am not the skinniest person, but then again, I'm also not the biggest person. But I feel like I am the biggest person on the face of the earth. I know a lot of girls feel the same way. A lot of them don't need to think they are fat, I mean size 0 pants But some girls like me who have to go to the plus size parts in the store, sorta have a reason to feel fat. Have you noticed that it is very hard to find cute plus size clothes? You have no idea how long I shopped to find ONE pair of cute jean shorts last summer! I mean yeah, there are pleanty of shorts that come down the the knee to choose from, but I don't really like wearing those all the time! I like shorts that are a little shorter, but deffinetly not boottie shorts but shorts that aren't knee length. But it took FOREVER to find a decent pair! And even then I only found one! It really isn't fair. Society does not make it any easier for us bigger girl to feel better about ourselfs. And yet they expect us to smile and act like everybody else. Well you know what? I'm done with being like everybody else, I am going to be me and I don't care if you like me or not! I don't care if I suck at singing, I'm going to sing as loud as I can! I a worth more than gold, and so are you! So hold your head up high, it's your time to shine, from the inside out it shows, you're worth more than gold! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9PjrtcHJPo I love every single one of you reading this and if you ever need someone to talk to about anything or just need a friend, message me. I'm here for you and I will show you the love you deserve! <3 You're a queen inside and out! Be blessed and always remeber, whatever you've been told, YOU'RE WORTH MORE THAN GOLD!
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